We hear a lot in the seduction business about how canned material is bad for you, and that you should be more of a natural. By natural, I mean not having any prepared dialogue in mind before you start approaching the women as well as incorporating techniques into your game. The obvious criticism with Routines is that it gives the illusion of high social value; whether or not you can maintain it past bantering is another matter.

Now, I grew up naturally shy and quiet, this carried on until I hit University. I was determined to make a change when I got there. I found it very difficult to hold conversations with people in general, not just women. I could not do talk to people, this went on for another a month. What did I do? I pre-planned dialogue to start conversations and to keep them going and make it engaging. I would get all my material off the Internet, Stand up comedians and watching television. All three things I do anyway. I would come up with 2-3 interesting openers I could use the next day, and think about what topics that could come up in conversation. As a result, I would have an opinion, a story, a couple of jokes for each topic. Not only this, I will incorporate negs, C + F one-liners that I come across.

As a result, my social value sharply increased, I had become a funny and interesting person. This was new to me. I carried on doing this, who can blame me right? It was working. This had helped me to develop confidence to allow me talking about topics that I had not prepared before hand. I still have those stories, jokes and openers on my laptop now, some of which I still use. Yes, Loveawake in this business will tell you canned material is not good for you, but what if you are new to the world of seduction you need to prepare. To achieve success in life, you have to practice and prepare, so why treat seducing women any different. Routines at the very least you should be used when you are new to the game, and to understand the concept of the techniques that we teach.

Think of going out in the field to seduce women as a job interview, you are not going to do well if you are not prepared right? Once you have acquired enough of this pre-planned material you would have hopefully practiced it enough times, it eventually becomes so familiar to you that it will feel like second nature, thus becoming your natural game. This is the way I have become successful at picking up women.